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I can’t seem to keep my house clean. How do
I keep up?
by Maria Gracia
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Question:
I am a stay-at-home mom for two very young children and I go to school
full-time. I can't seem to keep my house clean at all. I spend so much
time with the kids and homework, I end up doing all my cleaning after the
kids go to bed when I should be relaxing. I was just wondering what I can
do to clean my house to keep it somewhat clean. My kids have toys
scattered through the house and it seems like there are piles of dirty
clothes and laundry all the time. I can't keep up, no matter what I do.
--Holly Ann from Michigan
I am a full-time student with two young children ages 4 and 2.
Maria’s Response
Dear Holly,
Being a stay-at-home mom is a full-time job in and of itself. The fact that
you’re also going to school full-time adds a lot more pressure on you and
your day. You should absolutely be relaxing once the kids are in bed…this
is your time to re-group and recharge for tomorrow!
First of all, cut yourself some slack. Your home may not be as organized
or look like you wish, but your main priority is to people in your home,
including yourself.
Second, you don’t need a chunk of time to clean your house. Staying
organized is about finding moments here and there to work on
housekeeping responsibilities. Here are some suggestions:
1.
Try to do just ONE load of laundry a day, TWO if you have the time.
2.
Put away half of your children’s toys and then exchange them
throughout the year. This serves 2 purposes: 1) Your children (and
you) will have less toys to put away and 2) You can reintroduce new
toys which will re-engage your children.
3.
Buy some decorative bins to store the children’s toys. Label each bin
with a picture of what type of toy goes into the bin, this way the kids
can pick up their things and put them away. And yes, they should
begin doing this as early as possible.
4.
Multi-task. When you’re on the phone, sweep the floor. While waiting
for water to boil, put some of the clothes away.
5.
Incorporate spot-cleaning into your routine. You may not have time to
wash the floors, but you can definitely wipe up spots and spills as
you see them. For the bathroom, just take a wet paper towel and run
it along the base of the toilet and around the edges of the room. Or
use a disinfectant wipe to rinse off the bathroom countertops.
As you can see, there are several quick and easy solutions to keep your
home in order. Right now, you definitely have a lot on your plate, but as
the kids get older, keeping up with the house becomes a little bit
easier...as long as you are committed to the children helping you.
In addition, you may want to look into hiring a teenager for an hour or two
a day. While the sitter is taking care of your children, you can clean a bit,
and then take care of YOU.
Thank you for your letter,
Maria
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