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Although I’m grateful for the thought, I often
receive gifts that make more clutter
by Maria Gracia
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Question:
Although I am grateful for the thought, I often receive gifts that just end up making
more clutter in my house. I keep them for a brief period, and then donate them to a
charity. Knowing this, I don’t want to GIVE gifts that cause clutter. Do you have
some ideas?
--Michael S, Champaign, IL
Maria’s Response
Hi Michael,
I’m glad you asked…and I know what you’re saying. Not everything
we receive from others is going to be “just what we wanted.” I will
sometimes “drop hints” to family and friends who normally buy me
gifts. I might say, “Have you used Amazon’s Wish List? It’s wonderful.
I put everything on the list I would love to have…and I’m so
delighted when I get one of those items” OR “I’m saving for a new
Apple device. I’m hoping to get some Apple gift cards this year for
my birthday. What’s something that you would love to get for YOUR
birthday?”
Some folks will remember this conversation. Some won’t. But that’s
OK. As you’ve said, receiving a gift is very thoughtful…and
appreciated…even if you decide to donate that gift later on.
As for your question about “giving” gifts that don’t clutter, here are
10 thoughts:
1.
Amazon Wish List: Throughout the year, my family and I indicate
gifts we know we want on our Amazon Wish list. When someone
is wondering what to buy us, they can check our list. Most of our
family members, and some friends, use this complimentary
service, and we always end up with gifts we desire.
2.
Movie Tickets: For anyone who loves going to the movies, get
them a voucher for movie tickets.
3.
Free Babysitting: Give your good friends with young children a
gift certificate offering your free babysitting services for one
night, or one weekend...so the husband and wife can enjoy an
evening or weekend to themselves.
4.
Gift of Talent: Do you play guitar, play pool, or golf? Give a friend
complimentary lessons.
5.
Cash or Gift Certificates: Gas cards are great for people who do a
lot of driving. Music cards are great for teenagers. Restaurant
gift certificates are perfect for foodies. Spa certificates are great
for those who need a break.
6.
eBooks: There are so many wonderful digital books that your
recipients can download to their computers and eReaders.
7.
Think consumables: Gifts that can be eaten or “used up” will not
clutter! Think chocolate, wine, lotions, nuts, fruit, candles, and
soap. Just be wary of food or skin sensitivities.
8.
Gifts to a favorite charity in that person’s name: This is a nice
thing to give someone who has everything, and who you know
is very fond of a particular charity.
9.
Experiences: Give an experience gift to someone...something
that they’ll be able to do. Examples are Zoo Memberships,
Concert Tickets, Warehouse Store Memberships, Movie Rental
Services, Waterpark Passes, and pro basketball game tickets.
10.
Meals: Take friends and relatives out for a nice meal as your gift,
or cook for them. Make it an extra special occasion by sending
them a formal invitation and doing something special for them
that evening!
Happy shopping!
Maria
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